Elmwood Funeral Chapel & Crematory

Visitation Information

Amber M. Delapaz, "Ham"

Passed away on January 30, 2026


Amber M. Delapaz, “Ham”, nee Alvarado, age 28, passed away January 30, 2026.  Beloved wife of Anthony “Bubba” Delapaz for 14 years.  Cherished mother of Mia (10) and Malcolm (6).  Devoted daughter of Ruben Alvarado and Blanca G. Macias.  Dearest sister of Beth Vanessa (Corey Augilar) Casas, Andrea (Scott Ellard) Alvarado, Angelique Alvarado and Sito Lopez.  Dear daughter-in-law of Nicol Delapaz.  Caring aunt, niece, cousin and friend of many.  Amber was a Dental Assistant with over 10 years of dedicated service and an avid fan of Shrek.

Visitation Saturday, February 7, 2026 from 1pm until 7pm at Elmwood Chapel, 11200 S. Ewing Ave., Chicago.  Funeral services Saturday afternoon at 3:45pm.  Cemetery private.  773-731-2749  www.elmwoodchapel.com

Funeral Service:
Elmwood Chapel
11200 S. Ewing Avenue
Chicago, Illinois 60617
Saturday, February 7, 2026 - 3:45 pm

Interment:
Cemetery private

Visitation Location

East Side
11200 S. Ewing Ave
Chicago, IL 60617
(773) 731-2749

Map


Visitation Information

Saturday, February 7, 2026 - 1:00 pm until 7:00 pm

Condolences
"Our most heartfelt condolences to Anthony, his children and family on the passing of their beloved Amber. We are praying for you all and asking for comfort and strength during this difficult time. "
- Members of the Calumet City Fire Department
February 3, 2026 11:31 am

"Lifting Anthony, Mia, Malcolm, their entire family, and everyone blessed to know Amber, in prayer during this difficult time. May you seek peace and comfort within her beautiful soul. Our deepest condolences. Your Calumet City Family "
- City of Calumet City
February 4, 2026 11:25 am

""Someone said grief is like glitter. It clings to everything. Hides in corners. Slips into your socks. Appears on your fingertips when you're reaching for a glass of water, or brushing your hair before bed. It settles in places no one else can see. And sometimes, it sparkles. Sometimes, it doesn't. And I think that's true - not because it makes grief prettier, but because it makes it stubborn. Grief does not knock politely and leave when you ask. It spills. It stains. It stays. People imagine grief as a clean wound: blood, bandage, better. But really, it's a messy room you can't fully clean. A scent that lingers even after all the windows are opened. A sound you keep hearing, long after the music stops. Some people lose things they love - books, cities, voices, future plans - and keep walking as if nothing happened. Others crumble at the touch of a sweater sleeve or the sound of a name. There's no proper timeline for learning how to live with what you miss. Some days you'll do it gracefully. Other days, you'll choke on it. That's still living. And maybe that's the kindest thing about grief: it's evidence that something mattered. That someone left fingerprints on your heart so brightly, the light still catches on them. That you lived a moment so fully, its echo still finds its way back into your lungs. So if it hurts, maybe that's okay. If it glitters in the dark and you cry when no one is looking, maybe that's okay too. You are not weak for remembering. You are not broken for carrying pieces of them with you. That's what makes you real. That's what makes you capable of love. And love, in all its forms, is the reason we ever grieve at all." We are so very sorry for your loss and we send you all the love and support we can. "
- Ocampo Family
February 5, 2026 3:39 pm

"Mia and Malcolm, my sincerest condolences. I can't imagine what this feels like for sweet souls like you two, but know that there is always light. Light in sweet memories. Light in the knowledge that your friends and loved ones will be there for you. Light in knowing you always have a place at school, where all your teachers are sending positive thoughts and prayers. We will be here when you return. -Ms. Stephens"
- Ariana Stephens
February 5, 2026 6:22 pm

"My deepest condolences to Amber’s family and to all who loved her. She was such a bright and beautiful soul whose kindness, laughter, and warmth touched so many hearts. It’s hard to imagine the world without her light, but her spirit will continue to shine through her children, her loved ones, and the countless memories she left behind. May those who miss her most find comfort in the love she gave so freely and in the quiet moments where her presence still lingers. Although I can’t be there to say goodbye in person, please know that I will forever hold Amber and her family close in my heart."
- S
February 7, 2026 5:07 pm

Candles Lit
"Death takes the body. God takes the soul. Our mind holds the memories. Our heart keeps the love. Our faith lets us know we will meet again. God bless your family, in this Time of sorrow. ✝️"
- Robert Romero (family)
February 2, 2026 9:29 pm

"To guide you home"
- ET
February 2, 2026 9:48 pm

"To one of my childhood best friends-you left a mark on every person you met in this lifetime and I know you’ll do it again in the next! It’s never goodbye but see you later! Get your rest beautiful❤️"
- Tiffany
February 2, 2026 11:00 pm

"Such a sweet soul , may you rest in Peace beautiful."
- Annon
February 3, 2026 4:55 pm

"When I think of Amber, I think of joy. She was a sweet friend to have in elementary school with the greatest laugh. She was so loved. My heart goes out to her family and all who built a beautiful life with her. May you find her in all good things. "
- Ceci
February 3, 2026 10:03 pm

"May your light shine brighter in heaven than its ever been shown here on earth, you were and always will be something special. Your presence and memory will forever be a blessing to anyone who has ever been in your presence. I love you forever Amber and you will never be forgotten."
- Erica Gagen
February 4, 2026 12:34 am

"You touch so many lives in such a short time. I am so proud of you and I love you so much. You truly were the glue that helped everything together and you are missed. The same without you. You really had a heart of gold."
- Andrea
February 4, 2026 5:14 pm

"Words cannot express how much I'm going to miss you. You were so special to everyone around you. I love you so much, Amber. Be the angel that you were down here up there and watch over your loved ones. Rest well, little cousin."
- Andree Alvarado
February 4, 2026 9:50 pm

"For Malcolm's mom, I'm so sorry my friend"
- Mateo
February 5, 2026 3:40 pm