Elmwood Funeral Chapel & Crematory

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Mitchell Ethan Lucarelli

Passed away on May 13, 2024


It is with heavy hearts we share news of the untimely passing of Mitchell Ethan Lucarelli, 42, of Alexandria, Virginia. Ethan was a beloved husband, son, brother, uncle, and friend to many.

To those that loved him, he was like gravity—bringing everyone around him together, almost magically. To those who worked with him, he was the ideal colleague—producing gold-standard work product while treating his co-workers like an even more-precious metal.

An accomplished attorney, Ethan excelled in both public and private sector roles throughout his career. In 2020, he joined the Federal Communications Commission and quickly advanced to become Chairwoman Rosenworcel's Wireless and Public Safety Legal Advisor. Ultimately, Ethan was named the first Chief of the Commission's Office of International Affairs. In this role, which he helped to create, Ethan successfully built, and managed, an extensive team of attorneys, engineers, and professional staff. As Chief, Ethan was responsible for leading many of the Commission’s international activities, including treaty negotiations, bilateral and multilateral engagements, and international standard-setting work.

Ethan was also an adjunct law professor at The George Washington University Law School in Washington, DC, where he led teams of law students to success after success in national moot court competitions.

Ethan's laugh was infectious, and his care for others showed in all his actions. He was a world traveler, both for work and for leisure, and some of the most-memorable days were spent strolling through a new city, hand-in-hand with his wife, Vicki.

Ethan was always looking for a challenge whether at work or for fun. His love of music had him set a resolution in 2017 to see more live music, called "52 shows in 52 weeks." Of course, just like Ethan would, he exceeded the challenge he set for himself and attended 54 live music events.

Though his friends were countless, his closest especially loved Ethan for his passion for board games, his excellent knowledge about wine, and his unfailing kindness toward every person he met.

As an organ donor, the last physical gifts he gave exemplified his enormous heart and love for others. His memory will endure through all he touched.

Ethan is survived by his wife, Victoria Correa, his mother, Diane Eubanks, and father, Joseph Lucarelli, his brother, Matthew Lucarelli, and sister, Melissa Lucarelli, and numerous nephews and nieces.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to a scholarship to be set up in Ethan’s name at the George Washington University Law School, where he was both a student and a top-rated adjunct professor. Donations can be made here: https://gofund.me/f7962844

Memorial Services for Ethan will be held for the following dates:

Saturday, May 25, 2024 from 2:00 - 5:00 pm at the Elmwood Funeral Chapel 11300 W. 97th LN. (1/2 block west of US 41/Wicker Ave. at 97th Ln. St. John.).  Following the memorial at the funeral home the family would like to invite you to dinner and the chance to share stories and memories of Ethan at Lencioni's Banquet Hall 3325 Glenwood Dyer Rd. Lynwood, IL. 

A second Celebration of Life is planned for Ethan on Sunday, June 9th, 2024 from 1:00-5:00 pm at The Garden in Del Ray (Alexandria). Vicki has asked that all who attend wear something Hawaiian/tropical as Ethan always loved a good Hawaiian shirt.

Memorial Contributions:

In lieu of flowers memorial contributions can be made to https://gofund.me/f7962844

Visitation Location

St. John
11300 W. 97th Lane
St. John, IN 46373
(219) 365-3474

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Visitation Information

Saturday, May 25, 2024 - 2:00 pm until 5:00 pm

Condolences
"Vicki, Aunt Diane, Matt, and Missy, We couldn’t possibly convey with words how sorry we are for your loss. We are heartbroken and will miss Ethan so much. Some of our fondest and most cherished memories involved visiting Ethan and Vicki, where we were graciously welcomed into their home even when our trips were impromptu. These trips were where we first played one of our favorite board games and Colin was introduced to bourbon. We love you all so much and are here for you. With love and our deepest sympathies, Colin and Christine Palhegyi"
- Colin and Christine Palhegyi
May 14, 2024 8:18 pm

"Ethan was a great person and great leader. He will be missed. "
- Jeanine Poltronieri
May 14, 2024 8:31 pm

"I’m so sorry to hear of Ethan’s passing. He was a beloved member of the Palhegyi family. My husband Nick grew up side by side with Mitch (aka Ethan). Many great childhood memories were made together on vacations, sleepovers and family parties. We will always cherish his memory. "
- Mary Palhegyi
May 14, 2024 8:53 pm

"It is heart breaking that I am writing about Ethan in the past tense. It is something that I feel that I should have said to him at some point. I had the immense pleasure of working with Ethan in Inmarsat. He was such a lovely person. We had a similar sense of humour, and when you add his engaging manner, it was hard not to share his infectious chuckle and smile. He was such a pleasure be around. My life was richer for having had the opportunity of meeting and working with him and less now that he is gone. The last time I saw him was in Dubai and to my immense regret I missed the last round of meetings in Geneva and now I won't have the opportunity of sharing a coffee break and news with him in the future. I will raise a coffee (and a whiskey) to him in his memory. My sincere and deepest condolences to you all."
- Elaine Walsh
May 15, 2024 6:19 am

"Sorry for your loss."
- Patrick Forster
May 15, 2024 7:45 am

"My deepest condolences to Vicki and the rest of Ethan’s family. Ethan was one of the kindest and most sincere individuals I have known. He was a delight to both work with and share a conversation or a laugh with. His love and devotion to you, Vicky, knew no bounds. He lit up every time he looked at you and talked about you. And his kindness and heart were a testament to his family. My heart breaks with you and he will be dearly missed. "
- Cathy Hilke
May 15, 2024 8:42 am

"Ethan was one of the nicest, smartest people I've ever met. We had a lot of good times back in law school (and beyond) and he seemed to bring out the best in people. He was such a funny, supportive, and giving friend. I'm so gutted to hear of his passing. Ethan obviously made quite a name for himself in the legal profession and was a true industry leader, but he was never pretentious about any of that. He was just a genuinely wonderful guy, may his memory be eternal. My condolences to Vicki and to his family. "
- Michael Carrington
May 15, 2024 1:24 pm

"I was fortunate to go to law school and then remain friends with Ethan post-graduation here in DC. We went to school with so many brilliant people, but Ethan was clearly among the most brilliant. I have heard someone say that if you find the kindest person in the room, that you simultaneously have found the smartest person in the room. No one I have ever met better summed that up more than Ethan. It was an honor to be his friend and I am so glad he was able to contribute so much to our community, profession, and country. We will miss you so much, Ethan."
- Brett Sheats
May 15, 2024 2:03 pm

"Ethan’s entire FCC and global telecom and tech community loved him dearly. He was a beloved colleague and friend who nurtured relationships and brought his keen intellect and humanity to every conversation. Ah, and his laugh! It filled the room and the hallways — and there was nothing better than a good laugh with Ethan. Vicki, our hearts are with you and your whole family. We will miss him so dearly. "
- Julie Kearney
May 15, 2024 3:38 pm

"I’m so sorry to hear of this. Ethan was a lovely colleague at Wiley and in the bar — a generous person, regularly looking to make connections and extend himself for others. He was smart and clever. He loved the law and policy issues as well as technology but his lasting legacy will be his investment in people. He was kind and thoughtful. He will be missed and I hope his family can take some comfort that he had an outsized impact on his community. "
- Megan Brown
May 15, 2024 3:57 pm

"Hi Victoria and Family. I work with Ethan. I wanted to express my heartfelt sincere condolences to you and the family. It’s a big loss for the FCC Family and we are all mourning. He was such an amazing person with a huge heart and an infectious smile. He is definitely missed. I’m sure you have heard this a lot but please do not hesitate to reach out if you need anything. Sending warm hugs, prayers, and strength your way during this difficult time."
- Tivi Valentin
May 15, 2024 8:53 pm

"Vicki and family -- I am so sorry to hear about your loss; my thoughts and my sympathy and my heart goes out to you in this time. "
- Joseph Sola
May 15, 2024 10:40 pm

"I first met Ethan shortly after he joined Inmarsat in London, where he inherited my office and my phone number after I left for France: we shared the same first name and the same first letter of our surname, which meant we often had crossed emails and crossed phone calls in those days. Our lives seemed to be forever linked thereafter, and I always looked forward to our many opportunities to meet, the last being in Geneva, not even two weeks ago. When we were together, I always enjoyed admonishing people to kindly refer to one or the other of us as “Ethan L.” as we both had the same first name. Ethan was such a good person in so many ways. He was always kind and just to everyone, his presence and personality was always natural, good-natured, and happy. I share the chagrin, sadness and loss of all who were fortunate to be able to know Ethan and to have had the privilege of being in his presence. Ethan, we will miss you so much."
- Ethan Lavan
May 16, 2024 6:15 am

"So saddened by the tragic news. A great guy a great friend a kind soul a brilliant man. Thinking about his family at this time. A dear friend at GW Law and beyond. Deeply shall he be missed by all he touched in this world. From his hosting fun parties during the summers, to a very helpful law student, to a friend for many years after. Brilliant and kind funny and well rounded in every way. We went toe to toe in the Mock Trial Finals and then had a great meal with many laughs, just hours later. Ethan in a nutshell. A wonderful guy gone far too soon. "
- Adam Weinstein
May 16, 2024 8:51 am

"My family and I are so very sorry to hear of Ethan`s passing. We all express our love and condolences to Vicki, Diane, Melissa, Matt, and Joe. My family has known the Lucarellis since the kids were young. Words cannot convey our sorrow at the loss of this young man. "
- Sharon Horton
May 16, 2024 5:05 pm

"Heartfelt condolences. Ethan is going to be missed, really. Such a bright, friendly, helpful personality, attracting always a bunch of people to discussion on almost any topic... Great man, huge loss."
- Vilem Vesely
May 17, 2024 3:11 am

"I am so sorry for your loss. Professor Lucarelli was my journal advisor at GW Law, and could not have been kinder to or more supportive of me. My thoughts are with his family and friends during this time."
- Simon Poser
May 17, 2024 11:25 am

"Ethan was my professor at GW Law for Telecommunications Law and Policy and advised me in authoring my note for the Federal Communications Law Journal. He was SO smart, breaking down complex areas of law and policy into terms that were digestible for someone just getting acquainted with the FCC. Ethan was also compassionate and was so helpful in advising me on my note. He always gave great tips on networking as I aimed to pursue a career in telecommunications law and on teaching as I aspired to follow his footsteps in being a professor. The rate at which his career had been excelling had left me in awe, especially seeing the positive impact in policy making he had at the FCC. As a student, . I appreciated that his level of knowledge and curiosity matched what I needed in pursuing my goals of having a quality research product, and when my Dad had a stroke mid year and I was uncertain whether I could finish the semester, Ethan was so supportive and provided excellent guidance as I worked to catch up. I will always be grateful for his mentorship. My thoughts are with his family and colleagues in the telecom world during this difficult time. "
- Cody Ingraham
May 17, 2024 11:30 pm

"My deepest condolences to Ethan's family and everyone who knew and loved him. I first met Ethan when we were summer associates at Wiley Rein and we later became colleagues in the telecom group. Ethan's sense of humor was unparalleled! I keep wishing he was here to share a wry joke and cut through this sadness. His knowledge and passion for his work was remarkable. But I also loved getting to know him as a person. He lit up when talking about exploring the world with Vicki and his other passions including live music, his sweet pup, and his many friends. I will miss him. "
- Katy Milner
May 19, 2024 12:35 pm

"Ethan will leave an emptiness in all who knew him. I will miss having a whiskey with him and talking about a good day at work, a new board game, or his upcoming trips with Vicky. My hearts are with him and his family. He was much loved."
- Dominique Lazanski
May 19, 2024 4:01 pm

"Vicky, I cannot express in words how heartbroken I am. Ethan was my friend, my great American friend. As pathetic as it may sound, he was incarnating for me what America has the best: intellectual brightness, generosity, irony, sense of compromise with friendly firmness, curiosity... With Ethan you could believe that diplomacy is not an empty word, very different people can understand each other and find a solution. I will always keep a memory of us sitting in Chateau des Avenieres near Geneva before you got married. Ethan laughing as usual and us telling him a story of an American girl's strange dream to build that Castle. It is terribly unfair that we have lost him. "
- Yulia
May 20, 2024 5:46 am

"Dear Vik, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow following the loss of your loved Ethan and freind to me. I would like to wish you comfort during this difficult time, and my deepest sympathies go to you and your family.I was shocked by the message when I was landing in Washington DC while week before we were planning a dinner when I arrive. He was also planning to come to Kigali in June and with all the plans, I and Ethan worked together at inmarsat and he was my supervisor but our relationship went beyond to a close freind in Rwanda. During our time of working together, we gained more freinds from Africa, who helped our work easier when we need them and this was as result of Ethan's hard work and character. May his rest in peace "
- Emmanuel Dusenge
May 21, 2024 6:59 pm

"Ethan was a person you can never forget, even after a single encounter. I had the honor and pleasure of meeting him in Brussels and Georgia, where he came with his FCC colleagues to support us at our work. I will forever cherish his openness, willingness to help, and remarkable humor. Please accept my deepest sympathies. "
- Sandro Karumidze
May 23, 2024 10:56 am

"Vickie and family, we extend our love and sincere condolences. Words can't express how sorry we are for the loss of Ethan. He was always a bright and very kind man to everyone. Going to miss his kindness and willingness to get along with everyone. "
- Melissa and Marlon Davis
May 25, 2024 8:34 am

"A tragedy for all who knew him. One of the best and brightest."
- Jane H. Eilhauer
May 26, 2024 12:09 pm

Candles Lit
"Aum Shanti Shanti 🙏🏽🪔"
- Kalpna Raval
May 14, 2024 9:13 pm

"For Victoria"
- Michelle W
May 16, 2024 1:27 am